Brad is on the roll of solicitors of England & Wales but does not hold a practising certificate and does not provide legal advice.
Updated June 2026 · England & Wales
Ending a marriage is rarely straightforward, even when both people agree it's the right step. Since the law changed in April 2022, the divorce process in England and Wales has moved away from blame-based grounds to a simpler, no-fault system. That shift has changed the language, the paperwork, and the way the courts handle applications.
I've put this guide together to walk you through how divorce now works from start to finish, what you file, what your spouse does, how long each stage tends to take, and what the new terminology actually means in practice. Whether you're considering applying on your own or jointly with your spouse, the sections below should give you a clear picture of the road ahead and what to think about at each point.
Overview
Divorce in England and Wales is the formal legal route to ending a marriage. Since the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 came into force on 6 April 2022, the process no longer requires one spouse to accuse the other of adultery, unreasonable behaviour, or desertion.
Instead, a single ground applies: that the marriage has broken down irretrievably. A statement to that effect is enough, the court does not examine why. Applications can be made by one spouse alone (a sole application) or by both together (a joint application).
The process moves through three main stages: the application itself, a conditional order confirming the court sees no reason not to grant the divorce, and a final order that legally ends the marriage. Built-in waiting periods mean the whole process typically takes at least six months from start to finish.
It's worth remembering that divorce deals only with the marriage itself. Financial matters and arrangements for children are handled separately, and finalising the divorce without sorting finances can leave loose ends that cause problems later.
Key steps
Check you're eligible and prepare to apply. You must have been married for at least one year before you can apply for divorce in England and Wales, and the courts here must have jurisdiction over your marriage (usually through habitual residence or domicile). Decide whether you'll apply on your own or jointly with your spouse, and gather your marriage certificate along with your spouse's current contact details.
File the divorce application online. Applications are submitted through the government's online divorce service, where you confirm the marriage has broken down irretrievably. A court fee applies, check gov.uk for the current amount. Once submitted, the court issues the application and, in a sole application, sends it to your spouse (the respondent) to acknowledge.
Acknowledgement and the 20-week reflection period. After the application is issued, your spouse has 14 days to acknowledge receipt. A mandatory 20-week reflection period then runs from the date of issue before you can apply for a conditional order. This pause is designed to give couples time to consider their position and begin sorting out finances and arrangements for any children.
Apply for the conditional order. Once the 20 weeks have passed, you can apply for a conditional order, the court's confirmation that you're entitled to divorce. A judge reviews the paperwork, and if everything is in order, the conditional order is pronounced. At this stage the marriage still legally exists, but you're on the final stretch.
Apply for the final order. Six weeks and one day after the conditional order is made, the applicant can apply for the final order, which legally ends the marriage. Many people are advised to resolve financial matters through a consent order before taking this final step, because applying for the final order too early can affect certain financial rights such as those relating to pensions.
Q How long does a divorce typically take in England and Wales?
From start to finish, most divorces take a minimum of around six months. That's because of two built-in waiting periods: a 20-week reflection period between the application being issued and applying for the conditional order, plus a further six weeks and one day before the final order can be made. Complex finances, disputed jurisdiction, or delays in responding can extend this timeline considerably.
Q Can my spouse refuse to agree to the divorce?
Under the no-fault system, a spouse cannot simply refuse to let the divorce proceed. The only grounds for disputing an application are narrow, for example, challenging the jurisdiction of the English courts or arguing the marriage wasn't legally valid in the first place. Disagreement with the decision to divorce is no longer a reason the court will consider when deciding whether to grant it.
Q What's the difference between a sole and a joint application?
A sole application is made by one spouse, with the other responding as the respondent. A joint application is filed together and reflects a shared decision to end the marriage. Joint applications often feel less adversarial, but if communication breaks down later, the process allows one party to continue on their own. Either route leads to the same legal outcome.
Q Do I need a solicitor to get divorced?
There's no legal requirement to use a solicitor, and many straightforward divorces are handled by the individuals themselves through the online service. However, if there are significant assets, pensions, a business, children's arrangements, or international elements involved, professional input often helps avoid costly mistakes. The divorce itself may be simple, but the financial side is where advice tends to matter most.
Q Does the divorce automatically sort out finances?
No, and this catches people out regularly. Divorce legally ends the marriage, but it does not deal with the division of property, savings, pensions, or ongoing support. Financial matters are handled separately, ideally through a consent order approved by the court once terms are agreed. Without one, either spouse can potentially bring a financial claim years later, even after the final order.
Q What happens to arrangements for our children?
Children's arrangements sit outside the divorce process itself. Most parents work out living arrangements, contact and school decisions between themselves, sometimes with the help of mediation. If agreement isn't possible, an application can be made to the family court for a child arrangements order. The divorce itself won't decide these questions, and the court won't ask about them unless a dispute arises.
Q Can I remarry as soon as the conditional order is made?
No. The conditional order confirms the court sees no reason not to grant the divorce, but the marriage doesn't legally end until the final order is made. You can only remarry once that final order has been issued. This is one reason people are encouraged not to plan a new wedding date until the final order is actually in their hands.
The no-fault system is simpler than what came before, but timing, finances, and the order in which you do things still matter enormously. An experienced legal adviser can talk you through the process on the phone and help you think through your next steps based on what you describe.
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Brad Askew Solicitor (non-practising)
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